Karen Wiesner said in his book “There are no scar like those inflicted in
childhood, and no love like your first.”
According to science and psychology first loves are elevated
in our brains because they’re the first person we’ve ever experienced that
amazing sense of attraction toward for the first time.
Is that the reason
why we can’t let go?
In short, yes. The hormones involved in both lust and love
play a part in how attached we become to a person. Science says attraction to
the person we love is a product of evolution and that means they will stay on
our minds and last forever. Because they turns you into what you are today.
First love generates the most amazing and joyful feeling in
a person and that feeling can turn the whole world around. First love teaches
us many important things to remember and if first love became to last love then
it is the most divine feeling in this world.
Show us what love
feels like.
Yes that’s pretty amazing. No matter how it ended or stays,
feeling one of the most incredible and amazing emotions in the world for the
first time shouldn’t be forgotten. The first kiss, for the first time you hold
hands and much more. It’s okay to hold on to those memories. Just keep that in
mind while memories stay the same, people change.
Teach us how to love
again.
Think of first loves as the beautiful chapter. Sometimes it
works out and sometimes it doesn’t and when it doesn’t, you figure out what you
really have to do in a relationship and can know what to expect if there is
second time around to make sure it last forever.
Teach us how to put
others before ourselves.
We usually require a person to let go of our ego for the
sake of making a relationship last. A relationship require compromise, which is
at the base and key element of any great relationship — first or last.
Shows us what it
feels to be cared for someone who isn’t family.
It’s a great feeling to have someone very special on which
you can turn to during difficult times someone very special to whom you aren’t
related. This teaches you how amazing it is to have someone very special like
that in your life, doesn’t matter if it’s a lover or a special friend.
Make us want to be
better.
Maybe you were not the one who was dumped. Maybe it was
mutual or maybe you ended things. Still, whatever the reason first love is a great
learning experience that gave you the confidence to be true to yourself. It
allows you to release that how you are going to handled another person’s
feelings differently.
Teach us how to work
out on our problems.
They teach us that love takes work, effort and
communication. They teach us how to get to that level through trials and
errors. You don’t forget these lessons once you’ve learned them
